Silent Servants...

Silent Servants...

... of the Used, Abused, and Utterly Screwed Up.

A Secular Franciscan looks at the world...
with a more jaundiced eye than ever...
and lots of ellipses for you to fill in the missing text...
(with thanks to Thomas S. Klise for the title)



Showing posts with label friends. Show all posts
Showing posts with label friends. Show all posts

Thursday, May 10, 2012

R.I.P. - Peter John Burnell


Just a  very sad day. I've known Peter since he first came to teach at the university, and we spent many hours over coffee, tea and various meals, alone or at one time often in the company of Fr. Daniel Callam, visiting and discussing the affairs of the world, and closer, the affairs of the university and of our own lives in our walks with God. He was a man of generosity, warmth and tremendous humour, and he lived a simple life as a scholar, passing on his great love of things gone by, and things still relevant today.

He will certainly be missed, and I pray for the repose of his soul, and peace and comfort for all who knew him and were close to him. A day we knew was coming, but still a sad day.

Requiescant in Pacem, Peter. I'm sorry you're no longer here to correct my Latin.


Wednesday, March 07, 2012

Happy Birthday!




Dear Anonymous (you know who you are), born this day in never-you-mind (you know when).
Have a wonderful day. I wish we could get together to celebrate!
Stay well!
 


Monday, February 06, 2012

R.I.P. - RIta Fuller


This past Friday,February 3, a wonderful woman passed away at a local hospital. She, her husband and her family, were our family friends for many years, and she was like a second Mom to me with all the time I spent at their house and all the secrets I shared with her that I couldn't tell my own parents. One of her children, my own age, became one of my best friends in high school. This weekend it was sad to see her whole family, about 50 people up to the great grandchildren, getting together for the prayers and funeral. I was honoured by being singled out in the eulogy with a funny event from the past that has apparently passed into the family lore. She was a good, holy person with many gifts, some of which she gave up with the onset of serious rheumatoid arthritis and the loss of the use of her hands. As a dear friend I loved her, and I will miss her.

Requiescat in Pacem, Mrs. Fuller, and rest in the gentleness and love of God's Kingdom.


Tuesday, January 17, 2012

R.I.P. - Helen Campbell


The world has lost another good soul.

Helen was the mother of my best friend, Dan, who died a few years ago. Dan's death was a sad blow to her. She was a such a lovely person, and I always enjoyed visiting with her. She had wit and charm and we spent some very enjoyable hours with her and Harley.  I'm sure her wonderful dog Harley can't understand where his long-time companion has gone.

Helen moved to Ontario some time ago to live with her daughter and her family and I missed her then, though I will miss her more now knowing that she's gone from this earth.

Lord, have mercy on this kind soul and take her to eternal happiness with you in Heaven.


Friday, November 25, 2011

Our animal family members


are most likely more devoted, generous, protecting and loving than a lot of our human family members.

Heartbroken Dog Refuses to Leave Owner’s Grave

We're the ones who attach the label 'heartbroken' to the dog, but what we do know is that he's so attached to his owner, so devoted to the one person who has shown him love and attention, that he won't leave the spot where the human part of his companion rests. It really is touching...




Monday, September 12, 2011

R.I.P. - Giovannie Eremondi

If you would be so kind as to say a prayer for a friend, it would be much appreciated.

Please pray for the repose of the soul of Giovanni Eremondi, and for our Lord's comfort and consolation for the family. Giovanni has been ill for a long time, and getting progressively more ill, and he passed away gently and peacefully in bed. His wife, Orlene, is a fellow Secular Franciscan, and has been a strong and ready support for him during all his years of illness.

Heavenly Father, may Giovanni be greeted with joy in Your presence, and may he rest in Your peace, and may his family all be aware of the Holy Spirit in their lives and be granted the grace of comfort, peace and the consolation of trust in the redemption given freely by Your Son, our Lord Jesus Christ. In Jesus' name I pray. Amen.


Wednesday, June 29, 2011

R.I.P. - Fr. Paul Donlevy

Fr. Paul was a terrific person and a wonderful priest. We were never close friends, but we knew each other through events and organizations that brought us together for common purposes. He had a keen sense of humour and a deep affection for the poor, those he called 'the orphans'. He was an intelligent man, presiding over the marriage tribunal in the diocese for some years and well as being the diocesan canon lawyer. Everything he did was extra, beyond his first duty which was to the parish(es) that he was assigned to. Fr. Paul suffered from a number of serious illnesses throughout his life, which brought him into the hospital with increasing frequency, and which led us to be able to get together in that context, with me being able to provide him with some measure of comfort in prayer and the Blessed Sacrament. I know that I'll miss him, and I'm sure many others will.

Requiescat in Pacem. Go swiftly to God, Fr. Paul, and rest in His love.


Saturday, June 11, 2011

How many friends

do you have?

How Many Friends Does One Person Need? Dunbar’s Number and Other Evolutionary Quirks

Are we limited in our number of stable relationships by evolution?

Perhaps that's why I have no friends. I'm an evolutionary sport, destined to have my genetic line die out at this level. It's a good thing I've never passed my genes along to anyone...



Wednesday, May 11, 2011

R.I.P. - Rolf Christ


Rolf Christ was a friend of our family who spent the summer out at the same lake we did. They were there a lot while my parents lived there. Rolf was a wonderful man and a very talented individual who could do many things. It was a tragedy that he suffered from Parkinson's from such an early age.

My prayers go out to Helen and the family, and I wish blessings and Godspeed to Rolf, that he may rest forever in God's company, peace and love.


Thursday, February 10, 2011

This is a Godly... er.. Dogly church


They really are 'friendly Presbyterians'!

New Church Growth Concept- Invite Dogs to the Service

Also, take a moment to watch Wendy Francisco's GoD and DoG video on the link. Even if you've seen it before, it will bring a smile!


Friday, January 29, 2010

Caution! Cavities ahead!

For your browsing pleasure, a collection of sweetness on the web beyond any I've seen before! On a scale of 1 to 10, the awwwwww... level is 100...

The Ultimate Collection of Interspecies Animal Friendship Photos

A couple of them are a little suspect...


Monday, December 21, 2009

R.I.P. - Wally Moldenhauer

Wally Moldenhauer was a friend of my family's, a friend of many, many years. My parents spent many enjoyable hours and days with Wally and his wife, Anne, and we spent many pleasant hours in their company. Wally was always a pleasant man, easy to know and good to get along with. He was a man of faith, active in his Church and in the Knights of Columbus. He enjoyed sports and the company of others.

The world is lessened by his death, but Heaven is brightened. Our most sincere condolences to Anne and Ramona and all his family and friends, and our prayers for God's great love and comfort at this difficult time.

Go swiftly to God, Wally, and rest in His presence and love. Say hi to Garth for us all...


Friday, September 18, 2009

Grief

Faced with Bereavement

"How to support a friend or loved one who's grieving"
In my hospital work this is really a very big thing. One has to learn what to say, and, most importantly, what not to say. We're limited to words as, mostly, we're not friends of those grieving. Friends can do much more. Not everyone can do it as a worker or volunteer, but everyone encounters bereavement and grief in friends and family.

This is kind of a simple article, but a good introduction to the whole notion of actually learning how to be a friend to someone who is grieving...


Thursday, January 22, 2009

Morganor?

Morganor, are you there? Are you ok? Please let me know. I'm worried about you - I haven't heard from you for so long. Please leave a comment or get in touch. I miss you, but I hope you're ok. Thanks!

Friday, January 16, 2009

Wishing for the 'olden' days

We were talking about our non-human family members at work today. Every time we do that it brings Zeussie to mind for me and reminds me how much I miss her. I wasn't a dog person before Zeussie, but she really had a personality that shined and had a very quick way to win you over. Being with her 'family' was her greatest pleasure. Such a great friend...