Not too many years ago, it seems, I would never have imagined that this time would come. I'm going to be 60 this year, and somehow I just never gave survival to this age a consideration. Mind you, I only really wanted to die during the worst of my depressions, but this age was somehow 'way out there' and didn't bear thinking about. Today, Canada Day, is a special day for me and my family, and so thoughts of mortality whisper in and out of my mind, unbidden, all day.
It was 28 years ago that my brother, Garth, died. Suddenly, unexpectedly, you might almost say explosively. An unknown aneurism lurked in his body, and it chose this day of celebrations to make itself known. The medical people say that he died quickly, in just a couple of minutes, but leaving two young daughters and a wife, a budding administrative career in the civilian branch of the Armed Forces, and a family that loved him and admired him for his talents and abilities, means that the quickness of his death is little consolation for the huge loss.
He would be proud of his daughters if he were here. He would be retired too, and we could visit more often perhaps. Still, I take consolation in the fact that he did have faith, he was kind, generous and gave freely of his time and talents, so, as a believer, my consolation is my belief that he is enjoying the peace and comfort of Heaven at this moment.
Now, here's one of those things that makes you go 'Hmmmmmmmm...':
Quite some years ago we were in another parish. The parish had a program to raise funds for new hymnals, so you could donate the cost of a hymnal and dedicate it to whoever you liked and they would put a label to that effect in it. I paid for one in my brother's name and that was that. The parish purchased something like 300 hymnals as a result of this fundraiser. A little over a year or so later I was at church on the anniversary of his death. As an usher, one of my jobs was to tidy up the church before people started coming in for Mass. While doing so I was saying a prayer for my brother, hoping and trusting in our Lord's mercy that my brother would be sharing his blessings in Heaven. While I was doing this I picked up a new hymnal from a holder in a pew and turned to look at the dedication. It was the one I had made for my brother! I'm not going to state that it was a miracle or anything, but it certainly went a long way in reassuring me of God's love for us.
Hmmmmmmmm...
Oh, and Happy Canada Day, everyone!
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Monday, July 01, 2013
Monday, January 23, 2012
Splitting the difference

Various website have different dates, so I'm splitting the difference to suggest that today might be the anniversary of the birth of
Huddie William Ledbetter,
better known as
Lead Belly,
one of the more important figures in the history of Blues and Folk music...
Monday, December 05, 2011
Today

is the anniversary of the death of
Lisa McPherson
who "died needlessly at the hands of Scientology".
May she truly rest in peace.
Labels:
anniversary,
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L. Ron Hubbard,
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Sunday, November 13, 2011
Today's lesson...
is the story of
Karen Silkwood
whose death anniversary it is today.
There's much to be learned from her story, I think, and I admire her courage...
Karen Silkwood From Whistleblower Blues
Karen Silkwood
whose death anniversary it is today.
There's much to be learned from her story, I think, and I admire her courage...
Karen Silkwood From Whistleblower Blues
Friday, July 01, 2011
Requiescat in Pacem
Today is the anniversary of my brother's death, 26 years ago. Unexpected, sudden, tragic. I'm still not sure that I've dealt with it completely. But I miss him, and I love him. Rest in God's peace, Garth. You really are missed.
Thursday, June 09, 2011
Mind you,

even more important than Donald Duck's birthday is the birthday, today in 1915, of
Les Paul
who, unlike Mr. Duck, is no longer with us, having died just two years ago. A brilliant musician and inventor without whom many of us would be stuck using Leo Fender's Strats and Telecasters exclusively...
Happy Birthday, Mr. Paul, wherever you are...
Saturday, March 05, 2011
Today is

the anniversary of the birth of
Rosa Luxemburg,
Marxist theorist, Marxist economist, activist, philosopher, and the person SWMBO named one of our gone, but not forgotten or unloved, cats after. I don't think there's a message of any kind there...
Thursday, February 10, 2011
Yes, this centennial makes me squirm a bit...

Ronald Reagan, Of Thee We Sing
Why do so many things that are American in nature affect the whole world so much?
Thursday, February 03, 2011
This date,

The Day the Music Died
Those of us who love music, particularly the various types of rock music, lost musical genius that day. God rest them.
(It is also, and more importantly to me, the anniversary of the death of a great friend, Dan Campbell, who died in 2008. I think of him often and miss him a lot. Rest in the peace of the creator, Dan, and know that people here remember you fondly...)
Wednesday, February 02, 2011
On this day, in 1709,

Alexander Selkirk, the real-life inspiration for Daniel Defoe's Robinson Crusoe, was rescued from his 4-year exile.
This next site discusses the archaeological evidence for Alexander Selkirk's stay on the island: Mystery of Alexander Selkirk, the real Robinson Crusoe, solved
Thursday, June 17, 2010
Well...

...at least it's a retired warship. I mean, she was a peaceful sort, but she was all about relieving suffering, so it kind of fits...
Mother Teresa To Be Honored On Warship
Can't get the Empire State Building? Get an aircraft carrier!
Monday, May 03, 2010
So, whose birthday

Born in 1898 on this date, one of the founders of the state of Israel, Golda Meir,
the crooner, born on this date in 1903, Harry Lillis "Bing" Crosby,
a living folk legend, born May 3, 1919, Pete Seeger,
an R&B master of showmanship born in 1933 on this date, James Brown,
and finally, some Canadian content,
the famous magician, illusionist, escape artist and transcendental meditation practitioner, Doug Henning, born on this date in 1947.
A broad range of celebrities whose birthdays you can celebrate today. Pick one, or pick them all!
Saturday, May 01, 2010
Today

is the anniversary of the birth, in 1930, of
Marion Walter Jacobs (Little Walter),
a wonderful blues musician who died far too early due to violence. His blues harmonica playing was fantastic...
Tuesday, March 16, 2010
Today is the anniversary

Hugh Thompson, Jr., who died in 2006,
Glenn Andreotta, who died in Vietnam shortly after this tragedy, and
Lawrence Colburn.
God bless them all...
Wednesday, January 27, 2010
Wednesday, January 06, 2010
Today

Hugh Thompson, Jr.
His story may be somewhat familiar to you, but the story of the massacre will be the most familiar part. Songs have been written about him. The massacre is one of the biggest blots on the tarnished image of the U.S. during the Vietnam War. It's often difficult to stand up for what's right, but how much more so to stand up against your own countrymen and risk your life doing so. A very courageous individual, and one it is fitting to remember...
Rest in peace, Mr. Thompson.
Wednesday, November 25, 2009
10 years ago today

another good friend of mine passed away.
Daniel, I'm sure you're with God, singing with the angels in that wonderful tenor voice. Be at peace...
Sunday, November 22, 2009
A great Christian apologist

Today is the anniversary of the death of C. S. Lewis, a Christian apologist loved by people from every Christian denomination. A brilliant man who spoke to people at every level...
Into the Wardrobe — a C. S. Lewis web site
Tuesday, November 10, 2009
Instead of celebrating,

the right-wing extremists in the U.S. are angry about a skit. What a dark, dreary and grey world they live in. It must always be raining in their lives.
Conservatives Grouch-y over PBS's 'Sesame Street' Fox News jibe
Happy anniversary, Sesame Street, and may you have many, many more years of educating and entertaining...
Monday, October 05, 2009
Today

Pythonline
(Here's the Wikipedia entry for anyone who doesn't remember the 60's and 70's, for whatever reason.)
So, go on out and do a silly walk in honour of one of the funniest programs and comedy groups to ever grace the airwaves!
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